I have put this site up so that I can leave messages for specific people after I am gone ... you will have to log in to see the message that has been left for you ... if you are family once you have read the message for you other members of family will also be able to see the message that was left for you when they log in as well as their own message and vice versa ... same for friends however they will only be able to see messages to other friends once they have been logged in ... and family will be able to see messages to friends ... but friends will not be able to see messages to family ... messages will only be available to others family or friends if the person who they are for has logged in and read them ... otherwise they remain closed off till the intended reader has had their read first!!
Rhonda Dyane Brûçé